ADULTERY "my husband had found me in another man’s bed"

I promised him it would never happen again, that actually I wasn’t the one to blame or intend on causing him this much pain, in fact he could gain the entire truth from me if he would just wait and just let me explain.

But he just kept silent, looking me dead in my eyes.  I could see him slipping away. I could see the pain as I was entranced in his gaze

As I walked down the road which lead straight to his soul 

 I came to see my name joint to the signpost of his door, what was even more was that this was my home.

Already being a home owner I had taken out a mortgage with my soul.  Unconsciously paying the price that had already been paid.

Looking through the door, I reached the area he kept for me,where he held me so close to his heart. As I peered closer I realised his soul I was a part of. . . not just occupying a space I had become his embrace then I saw our bed of grace where he knelt and prayed.

But I didn’t know this would be the day; it has been so long. He did say he was coming and I promised I would wait, but the chemical reactions which arose in my body held me captive to my lust as the hinges of my door was caked with rust and lazy and forgetful I didn’t always dust.

Back to reality

 “It was a mistake . .. I didn’t mean to its you I truly love!”

He looked at me and shock his head “Does a hand just fall into a glove?”

But it was a moment of impulse he was my only care, he needs to understand my lonely mind tempted me there

Here, please I beg for you my love.

I love you

I need you

care and adore!

But at the door I saw him, his eyes were different this time, you see this wasn’t the first time although the others had been the last.

Every time it happened he would say it was all in the past,he would carry me off the bed as tears I would shed, turning on the tap he would wash red, till I felt strong enough to stand; he always forgave me.

But. . .but . . . this was the last time he said this was the end, I tried to cling to his hem but this time my tears couldn’t mend,  the unstitched seams which he had sown but I had ripped to shreds, had I actually traded my husband for perishable tears?

He looked back and said to me

“It is you I have always loved, but to present you to my father this cannot be done because my bride must be spotless, without blemish or stain and unfortunately today he called for your name but my dear time is of the essence and has begun to disappear so at this moment I don’t have time to wash you all over again, I’ve always told you to be prepared as even I didn’t know when He’d mention your name”.

And with that I couldn’t believe it all those warning were true, my husband had found me in another man’s bed and there’s nothing I can now do.

If the rapture happened 2 minutes ago would you have made it? Selah! 

'Adultery' was  beautifully written by Omoyoriola Bankole. I read it earlier on facebook and knew I had to share it with you all (Thank me later, LOL). Hope you liked it as much as I did?  Well before I leave you to carry on with today's business, it's important we remind ourselves of the second coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.  If you pay close attention to everything going on around the world and listen to the news, it should be very obvious that the end is near and Christ could return anytime from now. As Christians, we need to be sober and vigilant because the devil is actively engaged seeking whom to devour. Like me, I know many other young people out there make mistakes once a while that upset God but instead of letting such things drag you further away from God, you should ask Him for forgiveness, forsake those sins and make conscious effort to live right in accordance to God's will. We need to search our hearts daily to make sure we are in God's good books and also make conscious effort to stay away from sin and every appearance of evil. Be determined to get your relationship with God right now that you have the time, once that trumpet sounds, Christ wouldn't be able come to your rescue!May the Lord help us to live holy and remain rapturable at all times in Jesus name,Amen! Please take time out to read 1 Thessalonians 5 today, reflect on the passage and ask God to give you the grace to live holy. 

Do enjoy the rest of the day and remain blessed

With love,

LadyMay

A MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN: SEWA weds TUNDE

It’s about 3:45am and I can’t seem to sleep!  Just in bed singing and dancing (in my mind ) to this spontaneous  nice tune “Go Go Go Go Go  Sewa, it’s your wedding!  Go Princess it’s your big day!”. Today is Saturday 23^rd March 2013;  a very special and lovely PSF sister of mine is getting married to her heartbeat in a few hours. I am so happy for them but a little sad too L iReally wish I could make it to the wedding in Nigeria but unfortunately I’m stuck in this freezing cold country and to make matters worse it’s snowing so I can’t even go out to have fun today…  Well, I was in bed thinking, singing and moaning when I thought to myself “I should dedicate a blog post to TundeSewa” and here it is, YIPEEE!

"When true friends think the friendship is worth keeping for life, one becomes Adesewa and the other becomes Olatunde."--- The couple

Isn’t that quote really sweet?  Adesewa  and Tunde Banjo are really a match made in heaven! I love their love mehn!  To be honest I think I'm a little obsessed with love stories but who isn’t though?  I absolutely love young, sweet, romantic and godly couples. I've met a few cute couples but today, for the first time on my blog, I'll be celebrating a newlywed whose love iLove to bits.

Sewa is a darling PSF sister of mine, and Tunde her beau is a gentle man I'm yet to meet . Of course Sewa had given me nice gist about how they met, the relationship and all and I thought "Aww! How sweet" but little did I know until I stumbled on their blog online. I can't remember whether I had butterflies in my belly or goosebumps while reading their blog but I knew they made me feel like falling in love all over again. 

Sewa and Tunde met for the first time in 2009 at the RCCG Redemption Camp in Nigeria. Tunde somehow got princess' number off her and kept in touch. Communications went from text messages, phone calls,seeing each other a few times,emails and letters until Tunde moved to the UK. Sewa being very creative had used a fancy pencil work to thrill the young man and Tunde responded in kind by paying some random artist to do a pencil work of his new found love.

On and on and on they went, dude was madly in love with the girl, girl was crazy about him, love is in the air, God is involved and then the proposal!

Tunde's Proposal : I love you and I know that this love is from God. Because of this, I want to be with you so that we might serve Christ together. Through all of the uncertainties and trials of the present and future, I promise to be faithful to you and love you. I promise to guide and protect you as Christ does his church, as long as we both shall live. God’s Word gives us the perfect example of this love in Christ’s death for the Church. I shall try always, with God’s help, to show you this same kind of love, for I know that in His sight we will both be one. My goal will be to continuously be a more loving person to you for as long as I have breath. I love you and it’s a big deal.

Sewa's reply: You are the perfect verse over a tight beat. You are more wonderful than my dream. YES, I want to spend the rest of my life with you, in none and in plenty, serving Christ together. I promise to love and respect you. I promise to be submissive to you, and forever be a good thing in your life. Loving you Olatunde is a serious business for me, and i promise to do so with every breath in me. I love you my Sweetness.

COUGH! COUGH! I GO LOVE OOOO ! (If don't believe in love or if you think Christians are boring and not romantic, please visit TundeSewa's blog  tundesewa.wordpress.com )

                                                                                                  

On 23rd March 2013, Adesewa Obasa and Tunde Banjo celebrated their love in Lagos, Nigeria. I was so pained! Really wished I could witness the big day we anxiously waited for! You should have seen me rolling on my bed a night before! My body was in UK but my spirit had boarded the flight to Lagos. I had my home girls on the bridal train and they did a pretty good job filling me in on the events of the day.

To God's glory, the day was glorious and beautiful as expected. Princess Adesewa looked so beautiful in her lovely white ball gown while her Prince charming, Tunde, looked on point in his suit. I heard the Molebians rocked as usual too.

LadyMay's toast to the couple *Picks wine glass* Here is to a great, blessed, fruitful, happy, peaceful and fantabulous marriage *Cheers* Happy Married Life, may the Lord bless your new home in Jesus name. Amen.

P.S. If you are single and waiting on the Lord for the right person, please I want to encourage you to take time out to pray and seek God's face, open your eyes, work towards becoming the right person/ great spouse and keep trusting God. Be patient, don't settle for less, just wait for that special person God has for you. Remember the bible says "He makes all things beautiful in his time"

This is a surprise by the way, Sewa didn't see this coming. It is just my own little way of celebrating the gorgeous couple so please could you kindly help in celebrating them by dropping a comment congratulating these lovebirds. Thank you.

Traditional engagement

The Beautiful Bride

Bestman and Groom

Bride's brothers in Peach (Sewa is actually the only girl of a set of Triplets, how cute)

Marriage blessing.
Groom's look says  'Yes I did it! Now let the journey begin'
Wife's look says  'Yea me, I'm officially married.'

Cute couple, Mr and Mrs Tunde Banjo 

Love in air
Dance! Dance!! Dance!!!

And they lived happily ever after

CONGRATULATIONS MR AND MRS TUNDE BANJO !!! LadyMay hearts ya berry muchxx

ERMMMMM TRUE LOVE? DOES THAT STILL EXIST?

 These days I've been thinking so much about love. Does true love still exist? Sorry to burst your bubbles, I know I can be very mushy sometimes but I didn't mean that kind of boy-girl 'Eros' love you were thinking about, I meant the Philo and agape kind of love, unconditional love. I've seen so many things lately that makes me wonder if true, pure and undiluted love still exist in our relationships, families, churches and society? 

The word ‘love’ has been bastardised, these days when someone says ‘I love you’, you really have to double check to make sure they really mean it. The same applies to Christian folks in the church, when the choir raises a song like ‘Hold somebody, tell them that you love them, put your hands together and praise the Lord’... Everyone gets excited, grab their neighbours hands, swing and dance along but deep within, many are guilty of two sins. Sin number 1, lying! Sin 2, hypocrisy! Why tell someone you can’t tolerate ‘I love you’ just because the song says so? Why pretend to be cool with someone when behind their backs you are ready and very willing to devour them with your tongue? (Sometimes I’m guilty of this too but thank God for the Holy Spirit who knows how to chastise those he loves when they step out of line.)

            

Loving others isn't an easy task, I guess that is why it is the 2nd most important commandment God gave. It’s very easy to love those who love you but we all know how frustrating it can be to love those who keep getting on our nerves. Personally I do my best and find it quite easy to love everyone around me but the hard work comes when you have to show love to those who will take your love for granted, rub it in filth and then throw back in your face.  The experience isn't really a nice one but I never learn my lessons, lol, before you know it, I'm loving again. I can't really change that about me.

                                                                                 

Anyways while I was thinking, I realised that the reason why pure love seems to be going extinct in our world today is because many people don’t really love themselves and as a result they find it really difficult to love to others. The big book says ‘Love your neighbour as yourself’. If you don’t love yourself how are you supposed to know how to love others? If you don’t appreciate yourself, it will be difficult to appreciate the good things in other people! Loving yourself, your state and estate is the first step to loving other people. If you are comfortable with whom you are and the position God has placed you, you will find it easy to love and relate with others without secret hatred, grudges and hypocrisy.

                                               

Another reason why I feel true love is ‘scarce’ in our society is because many people show love with selfish desires, they love for what they would get in return and some who love do it as frequently as we celebrate Christmas. As Christians this shouldn't be, our love shouldn't be conditional, we are supposed to be Christ-like!. Christ showed us love when were very irritating and dirty, he died for us while we were sinners. Imagine if Christ had waited for you to love him before dying on the cross for you? We didn’t deserve His love yet he showed us love and still continues to show us unfailing love!

            

So back to my question, does true love still exist? Ermmmm, what do you think?  I believe even if true love doesn’t exist in your own little world, you have all it takes to show and experience true love.  The bible says in 1 Corinthians 13: 4-6 “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.”    To experience true love, start by loving yourself and then start showing love to others without selfish and hidden agendas. Go all the way to show love and care to people without expecting anything in return, be selfless and keep praying to God for the grace to help you show love to those who really do not deserve it.  

This planet can do with some love, “Spread love everywhere you go: first of all in your own home. Give love to your children, to your wife or husband, to a next door neighbor . . . Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier. Be the living expression of God's kindness; kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile, kindness in your warm greeting.” ― Mother Teresa

Have a lovely weekend

With so much love,

LadyMay

May's Diaries: The journey from BabyMay to LadyMay.

 Yipeeeeee! Finally I get to start blogging. A few friends suggested this a while ago but I simply couldn't be bothered. For over a year now, I have pretty much been in my own world  jumping from one 'drama' to the other. Seriously speaking, how do atheists cope? The only thing that has kept me going is the fact that I know there is God who sees everything and makes things beautiful in his time. Trust me when I say life has been crazy and challenging but I've decided to have fun and ride however the tide.


So yes, welcome to my blog where I'll be sharing HOT gists! Lol! My stories, emotional dramas, spiritual struggles, life's challenges, health talks and the lessons God taught me during my various wilderness experiences.  I call this "The journey from BabyMay to LadyMay", you can call it "May's Diaries" if you wish but this is me, the other side of me.  



P.S.   If you are going through one challenge or the other, I just want to remind you that even though God may seem quiet, He is not dead! He is very much alive and very soon, He will make all things beautiful.  Do not give up on God yet, keep praying and  keep trusting!  "These hard times are small potatoes compared to the coming good times, the lavish celebration prepared for us." (2 Corinthians 4:17 MSG)